I have installed versions from 8.04 on. The latest version 9.10 uses a beta
version of the grub. I have failed to find the menu.lst file with this version.

I simply use the install program and choose the OS side by side to install
another version. I do have a problem though as I installed Ubuntu 9.10 on the
other half's new netbook and the default OS is now Ubuntu 9.10. The problem is
that she likes her Windoze so is unhappy with the idea that she must choose it
from the bottom of the boot menu. Do you have any idea how to change the boot
order so I can save face with her. Remember that the /boot/grub/ folder has no
menu.lst file.