We've had several discussions that weren't at the point of being
abusive but were still IMHO not helpful. I'm not currently a Rotarian
but I've always been impressed with their "4-way Test" and suggest it
might be useful for all of us to consider before we press "Send"...

"Of the things we think, say or do:

"1. Is it the TRUTH?

2. Is it FAIR to all concerned?

3. Will it build GOODWILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS?

4. Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?"

www.rotary.org/.../070917_news_Four-WayTest.aspx

As one of my tech friends once told me: "everything I know is yours",
with that attitude, and a bit of tolerance, we can't go far wrong.