The new approach being, I have an empty row at the top of my page with a Add New Record link button(same as the edit button) now when I click on Add New row, update and delete appears.

First question , how do I change that rows(add new record row) update link (when in edit mode) to Insert.

Second question, in my update command I want to have a IF statement where I can filter if Insert link was clicked then do X if normal update command link was clicked the do Y.