it's very easy send  an email with asp.net... if you search on google for "send email asp.net" you'll get tons of resutls. Here you have one,
http://www.aspfree.com/aspnet/email.aspx

if you need something more advanced you can get AspNetEmail. You can find this amazing component @ www.aspnetemail.com

Also, you can get help on ASP.Net & Email issues @
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AspNetEmail

Ive checked out some of the links and am getting some useful
results. I know now to add the system.web.mail at the top and how to
dim the object But I still have a few questions.

1. Do you need to download these things. Won't my server have an
object that can alread do it.
2. THe main problem is now I have the code below, the compiler says
BC30188: Declaration expected at the Mailfrom= "Dougie Shaw" line
when I have already declared Mailer in the previous line. WHy is
that?

<%@ Page language="VB" AutoEventWireup="false" aspcompat=true%>
<%@ import namespace='system.data.oledb' %>
<%@ import namespace='system.data' %>
<%@ import namespace='System.Web.Mail' %>
<script language="VB" runat="server">

dim Mailer as new MailMessage
Mailer.From = "Dougie Shaw"
Mailer.To="dougieshaw@..."
mailer.BodyFormat = MailFormat.Html
Mailer.FromAddress = "info@..."
Mailer.RemoteHost = "mail.dougieshaw.com"
Mailer.AddBcc = "dougieshaw@..."
Mailer.Subject = "Reminder"
Mailer.Body = messagebody
Mailer.ContentType = "text/html"
SmtpMail.Send(mail)
if Mailer.SendMail then
response.write ("Mail Was Sent")
else
response.write ("Sendmail failed."& Mailer.response)
end if

response.write("<br><br><font size=3 color=red>sent to
day</font><br>")
response.write("<br>"& name)
response.write("<br>")
response.write(""& messagebody)
</script>

You have to put that code inside an event handler like Page_Load, or a
button click, in this way:

Sub btn_Click(sender as Object, e as System.EventArgs)

If request.form("EmailAddress") <> ""
Dim mail  As New MailMessage
mail.From = "youraddress@..."
mail.To = request.form("EmailAddress")
mail.Subject = "Message sent using ASP.NET and CDONTS"
mail.Body = "HTML Message sent from ASPFree.com using ASP.NET
and Cdonts<br><a href='http://aspfree.com/aspnet/email.aspx'>Wonder how
this is done?</a><br><br><a
href='http://aspfree.com/aspnet/setupcdonts.aspx'>Wonder How to setup
CDONTS?</a>"
mail.BodyFormat = MailFormat.Html
SmtpMail.SmtpServer = "LocalServerName"
SmtpMail.Send(mail)
End If
End Sub

Definitely making progress here!

Its in the event handler, I have text boxes to submit to it, all the Mail. Tags work now.

The error I get now is BC30188: Declaration expected

At the line that says SmtpMail.SmtpServer = "LocalServerName"

I havent get downloaded the aspfree component for the simple reason that I am not at the server, its in the office and its 9pm so the guy to do it wont be in till the morning. Will it work without this?

aspfree doesn't have any component... I was just refering to one of his tutorials to send  mail...
The smtp server property is the name or the ip of the smtp server (self-descriptive property I think ;). Just don't set that property and the local IIS smtp server would be used. If you want to use another smtp set that property (for instance mail.myisp.com)

I just changes this property
Mailer.To="francisxavaz@..."
Mailer.From="sakthivel.atwpdc.com"
It isnt working!!!What else do I need to do in the
Code
to send  a mail.

Can you show us all the code and errors. Have you specified a SMTPSERVER property value (either Netbios or DNS name)?

<%@ Page language="VB" AutoEventWireup="false"
aspcompat=true%>
<%@ import namespace='system.data.oledb' %>
<%@ import namespace='system.data' %>
<%@ import namespace='System.Web.Mail' %>
<script language="VB" runat="server">

Sub Add(sender as Object, e as System.EventArgs)

dim Mailer as new MailMessage

If request.form("EmailAddress") <>""""

Mailer.To="francisxavaz@..."

mailer.BodyFormat = MailFormat.Html

Mailer.Bcc = "francisxvaz@..."

Mailer.Subject = "Testing!!!!!!!!"

Mailer.From="sakthivel.atwpdc.com"

Mailer.Body = "hi"

Smtpmail.SmtpServer = "80.0.0.54"

Smtpmail.Send(mailer)

End If

End Sub


SmtpMail.Send(Mailer)

if Mailer.SendMail then

response.write ("Mail Was Sent")

else

response.write ("Sendmail failed."&
Mailer.response)

end if



response.write("<br><br><font size=3
color=red>sent to day</font><br>")

response.write("<br>"& name)

response.write("<br>")

response.write(""& messagebody)

</script>
<html>
<body>
<form runat='server' ID="Form1">
<b>Enter Name
<br>
<asp:textbox id='name' runat='server' /><br>
Enter Email</b>
<br>
<asp:textbox id='email' runat='server' /><br>
Enter Message<b><br>
<asp:textbox id='message' runat='server' /><br>
How long till first send?</b>
<br>
<asp:textbox id='firstsend' runat='server' /><br>
Then how often?</b>
<br>
<asp:textbox id='frequency' runat='server' />
<asp:linkbutton id='button1' runat='server'
Text='Add' onfiltered='Add' />
</form>
</body>
</hmtl>

and the err Comes BC30188: Declaration expected.

Line 41: SmtpMail.Send(Mailer)

Your smtp server should not be a share name but rather either a NETBIOS or DNS name i.e. NETBIOS :MYSMTPSERVER ß-> DNS: Mailserver.MYdomain.Com