You may want to cross post to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ASPNetClient
aspalliance.com/lists/SignUp/list.aspx?l=18&c=16
lots of client Experts there. I never did a lot of Active-X except for the "assistants" and "remote scripting" so I can't help you on this one and others on the list don't seem to be helping you fast enough either so maybe the client experts there can help.