I am trying to setup TightVNC server on my linux box using Gnome. So
far, as I am having a small problem, it is only on my local lan.

I have it installed and when I try to log in using a TightVNC viewer
on another box; it of course ask for a password. This is given and
then I get a blank screen on the viewing machine UNTIL I go to the
server machine and answer the popup box (hopefully shown below)
indicating that "Another user is trying to view your desktop". As
soon as I click on "Allow", everything is working just fine.

Emacs!

My question is: How do I either bypass this screen or automate it
because when I do get it working on the internet, I sure don't want
to come home just to click a button and then go where I was to make
it work! (defeats the purpose of the whole thing

I am sure I have probably missed some simple configuration item or
check box, but 2 days of hunting has not helped.