One way is to clear all of the same type of highlighting from the
whole sheet everytime the selection changes, just before you apply
your highlighting.
This code illustrates this using a different method to highlight the
currently selected cell(s):
Private Sub Worksheet_SelectionChange(ByVal target As Range)
Cells.Interior.ColorIndex = xlNone
Selection.EntireRow.Interior.ColorIndex = 15
Selection.EntireColumn.Interior.ColorIndex = 15
End Sub